Asking for referrals is about the worst way to try getting them. Too frequently, it sets up a scenario that actually compromises the client relationship. What’s worse, unlike cold calling, which may be the crudest and least imaginative way to try to get new clients, it doesn’t work. At least cold calling, done consistently and frequently enough, will bring in clients, and sometimes good ones. Referrals provided in response to your request for them will not generally give you the best ones.
In her studies the Economics Of Loyalty and Anatomy Of A Referral, Julie Littlechild demonstrates that which clients refer has little statistical relationship to how or how often they are asked. There is simply no clear straight-line between asking clients for referrals the way we have been traditionally trained to do it and the best referrals you actually receive. Read More





